It’s Fall , even though this unseasonably warm weather makes it feel like it’s still summer. But don’t be fooled, Fall is one of the best times of year to meet women (much better than summer) because the cooler weather psychologically triggers women to start looking for a mate. No woman likes to be alone through the cold months!  Hence for men, this is one of the best times to get out of the house and meet women. 

So how do you capitalize on this surge of women looking for a date? 

Dress better: Fall is the time of year for people who like clothes. When the mornings are crisp, the afternoons warm and the nights are cool, it is necessary to dress accordingly. 

” Dressing crisp will get you noticed. When your clothes are well fitting, and you have essential accessories like a nice pair of leather shoes, a quality belt, a proper trench and scarf that has colors, you will get noticed by women in a hurry. Let your cloth do the opening for you.” 

Go to your local hispter coffee shop: Its not just hipsters there are now, there are plenty of cute women, too. Plus, three words: Pumpkin Spice Latte. Just about every women is obsessed with the Pumpkin Spice Latte or anything Fall for that matter (anything pumpkin, cider mills, apple picking, leaves). Try out your wittiness in any Fall venue because there will guaranteed not be a shortage of women. Dont just bum rush them, here are a  few ways to approach women in a coffee shop: When all tables are busy, sit down  with most attractive woman you see. Before you sit down , ask : “Can I steal this seat from you?” Everyone says “yes” to that, thent sit down instead of moving the chair. Not only you are sitting with her now, you have also already spoken to her.     

When all seats are not taken, take a seat that gives you close proximity to a woman you find attractive. Most important elements in this case, are: No barriers (even the table is a subconscious barier), and natural body position that leaves both your bodies almost facing one another aka she shouldn’t have to crank her neck for more then a few seconds. If her position is uncomfortable, that conversation will be over in no time. Topic of conversation: Atmosphere or unusual items in this coffee shop. Observational topics are great way to get conversation started. 


Homework: Clean out your wardrobe and piece together some good go to outfits that you feel good in. If you don’t have any, then treat yourself and go buy one!  (We find image consultant can do wonders for your wardrobe if you not sure where to start) When you look and feel good, you act more confident. Got to coffee shop and do 2 interactions we described above. Above all, don’t forget to have fun! 

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